
"Sticks and stones may break my bones..."
My last post was about the now infamous Kanye West/Taylor Swift incident at the VMA's and the dumbing down of our society thanks in part to a soulless pop-culture driven youth and the Reality TV-reality in which we now live. But, after seeing the intensely personal and sometimes virulent public reaction to West's silly publicity stunt I was once again reminded that 'sticks & stones' always start with silly little words, and people can and do get hurt.
The dangers of this slippery slope are boldly highlighted in "media assassin" Harry Allen's recent piece addressing West's antics and the subsequently frequent and causal usage of the N-word all over Twitter in the aftermath. Coincidentally, as the N-word was flying around the Twittersphere and no doubt the water cooler, classroom and dinner table in many parts of our diverse yet confused nation, president Obama was caught on tape calling West a "Jackass." While the video shows the prez casually laughing off his comments, assuming his lighthearted but poignant remarks are not being filmed, he exemplifies an honesty and yet a naivete to the potentially dangerous situation looming.
Think about it, if Kanye would have upstaged Keisha Cole, a black female singer, the outcry would definitely not have been nearly as intense. At least not in the mass media nor in white circles. And, if you think this desire to protect such a manufactured image of racial purity is not a potentially dangerous subject you are obviously not familiar with American history.

To point out the most obvious example, it was the brutal murder in 1955 of 14-year old African-American, Emmett Till, in Mississippi for allegedly whistling at a white woman that helped to shift the civil rights movement into gear. Of course, many other black men met similarly horrific fates before and after, lynched and murdered by groups of white men, victims of 20th century 'Jim Crow justice.' Today, the unsettled souls of that very ugly period in our country's history continue to haunt our national subconscious.
This high level of seriousness that continues to be the issue of race in America is why it is not only important to call out West for being a "jackass," but to also call out the people who feel comfortable with using overtly offensive, hurtful and racist language in response. Such behavior, whether unchecked or simply misunderstood, only work to reinforce a very insidious, systemic oppression of people of color.
In 2009, it is up to us all to refuse to remain silent when faced with these ghosts. Silence is merely acceptance, and such acquiescence is very dangerous. Indeed while president Obama laughs off his Kanye West comments, he has hate filled language being piled atop of him every day of the week by the likes of Glenn Beck, Rush Limbaugh and the Joe Wilson's of the world. He may have to take the highroad and pretend that they are not there, ominously looming in the shadows like the barrel of an assassins gun, but we cannot afford to do so. We need to take notes from former president Jimmy Carter, an 84 year old white Southerner, who's recent remarks addressing the racism facing the Obama administration, were not only brave but more importantly responsible and necessary.